Warriors star Steph Curry recalls how his early failures led to success originally appeared on NBC Sports Bay Area
Stephen Curry stepped on the court during an AAU tournament in Nevada, determined to prove deserving of a scholarship to a major college. Maybe even Duke or University North Carolina, a couple hours’ drive northeast of his hometown of Charlotte.
All the big-name coaches were in the building and Curry, a scrawny but earnest teenager, would provide them with a glimpse of all his greatness and glory.
He was awful.
And it was one of the best things to ever happen to him.
Asked on Sunday to recall a memorable brush with failure, Curry paused briefly before reliving the moment during a panel discussion at the University of San Francisco.
“I was in the recruiting kind of window of the time, and I was trying to find my way to the highest level of basketball that I could play,” he said. “And there was this one tournament in Las Vegas, an AAU tournament that I played in, and it was the first time that I knew that all these coaches were going to be around the court. The Who’s Who. I grew up in North Carolina, so the who’s who of ACC country, and I put so much pressure on myself.
“It’s like this is my moment. If I want to play high Division I basketball, I have to take advantage of this weekend – or else the opportunity is going to pass me by.”
It was the game of the day, in the afternoon, and Curry planned to take his fellow youngsters to basketball church and deliver a hoops sermon. Stardom was beckoning.
“That was a game where all the coaches were there,” Curry recalled. “And I had 14 turnovers.
“And what came out of that, was in my mind, I had failed. I had kind of underperformed, got overwhelmed by the moment, talked myself out of just enjoying it. Playing the way that I know how to play.”
What Curry could not have known was that lurking in the shadows of such famous coaches as Mike Kryzyewski (Duke), Roy Williams (North Carolina) and Tom Izzo (Michigan State) was another coach with a much lower profile but insight that proved keener than his more acclaimed colleagues.
Davidson College coach Bob McKillop saw the turnovers. Probably counted and winced at each one. But he noticed something else that lit up his mind.
While Curry was profoundly displeased with his performance, McKillop looked beyond the stats and came away impressed.
“He told me it was the fact that my body language didn’t change, and the way that I talked to my teammates didn’t change, and my ability to hustle back on defense,” Curry recalled. “None of that stuff was in my head. It was just how I played the game. It was all about the failure of the results and the stats.
“And for him, that was one reason – or the main reason – why he wanted to offer me a scholarship that next month was because he got to see the intangibles of things.
“So even through failure, you’re going to have an opportunity to show who you really are.”
McKillip saw a kid whose character remained intact when it might have been forgiven if he had lost his composure. Or barked at the referees. Or threw up his hands in disgust. Or worse, point fingers. The coach realized he was watching a unique 16-year-old. One who did not allow an appalling performance to crush his spirit.
“I didn’t really understand that element until he called it out,” Curry said. “And so, for a failure to be a reason that I got an opportunity at the next level, I kind of took it and ran with it.”
Curry describes McKillop as “a mentor.” Even now, nearly a quarter-century after they met, they share a bond that stays too tight to snap. Curry still reaches out to his college coach and McKillop has made numerous trips to the Bay Area to spend a couple days with the kid who became a superstar.
It’s important to note that McKillop always stressing education to his players was among the reasons Curry returned to Davidson in 2022 – less than two months after leading Golden State to an NBA Finals victory – to earn his degree in sociology.
The journey traces back long before Curry led the Warriors to four championships or won back-to-back MVP awards. Before he entered the NBA, much less playoff basketball. Before he was “Steph.”
Curry’s road to ultimate career success began with an epic failure that didn’t turn him sour. His emotional integrity remained in place. All these years and accolades later, that has not changed.
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