Remembering Jason Collins, a brave NBA trailblazer we all should aspire to be originally appeared on NBC Sports Bay Area
Few things hit harder than when someone dedicated to moving humanity toward the light dies too young. Someone like Jason Collins, whose personal quest for goodwill and free expression ended this week when he died at age 47.
After four years as a basketball star at Stanford, playing alongside his twin brother, Jarron, Jason was a first-round selection (18th overall) in the 2001 NBA Draft. In his second season, the 7-footer was the starting center of a New Jersey Nets squad in the NBA Finals. His assignment: 30-year-old Shaquille O’Neal, the league’s most imposing player since Wilt Chamberlain two generations earlier.
Collins neither flinched nor blinked. None of us could have known such fortitude would be a preview of his future.
By the time Collins passed away 23 years later, he had established himself as a widely respected player and, moreover, one of the bravest athletes in American history. He took a path to a sea all others, fearful of drowning, had evaded and dived in.
“I’m a 34-year-old NBA center,” Collins wrote in a first-person cover story in the May 6, 2013 issue of Sports Illustrated. “I’m black. And I’m gay.”
Collins would not allow himself to be influenced by public opinion; it was beyond his control. Any apprehension he might have had would not keep him from sharing his truth. It’s not as if he rolled out of bed one morning, grabbed his courage sweater and announced his authentic self to a basketball world that knew his game but not his life.
“I didn’t set out to be the first openly gay athlete playing in a major American team sport,” Collins wrote. “But since I am, I’m happy to start the conversation. I wish I wasn’t the kid in the classroom raising his hand and saying, ‘I’m different.’ If I had my way, someone else would have already done this. Nobody has, which is why I’m raising my hand.”
Though American society had been limping forward for nearly two generations, diminishing much of the dark-ages stigma attached to homosexuality, the topic remained a source of unease in certain pockets of our planet. Collins knew that in the hyper-masculine ethos of men’s professional sports, including the NBA, there could be some backlash.
He instead received numerous expressions of support.
Kobe Bryant, whose Los Angeles Lakers twice defeated Collins’ Nets in the Finals, turned to social media to express pride in Collins’ decision. Charles Barkley called it “a great day in the NBA.” Warriors coach Steve Kerr, then an NBA analyst at TNT, said Collins’ “courageous act will impact many lives and help to create more tolerance in sports. Proud to have him representing the NBA.”
Collins’ decision lifted equality in American sports to an unprecedented level. It was greeted with loud applause then and still is broadly celebrated today, particularly among those who knew him well.
“An amazing teammate,” Kris Weems, a Warriors assistant coach who played with Collins for two seasons at Stanford, told NBC Sports Bay Area. “One of the smartest basketball players I’ve played with and been around. Just a really good guy from a really nice family.
“I’m honored that I got to be his teammate and see him grow and mature in his second stage of life, post pro basketball, that was inspiring to so many people.”
Another former Stanford teammate, Mark Madsen, now head coach at Cal, posted on Tuesday X: “Jason was one of the strongest and kindest (people) I have ever met. He was ferocious on the court and full of love and kindness off the court. He welcomed everyone no matter your background. He was the guy who brought fun and energy to life.”
Collins’ announcement also received considerable grace the moment he made it. Kobe Bryant, whose Lakers twice defeated Collins’ Nets in The Finals, turned to social media to express pride in Collins’ decision Charles Barkley called it “a great day in the NBA.” Warriors coach Steve Kerr, then an NBA analyst at TNT, said Collins’ “courageous will impact many lives and help to create more tolerance in sports. Proud to have him representing the NBA.”
Collins’ courageous move was a triumph over fear, rinsing more than 20 years of anxiety and fitful sleep. His name suddenly was bigger than basketball. Nine months passed before the Nets, then in Brooklyn and coached by former teammate Jason Kidd, offered a contract.
Collins signed it on Feb. 23, 2014. On that night, during a Nets-Lakers game in Los Angeles, he made history by stepping onto the floor as the first active openly gay NBA player to do so.
He had evolved from being a fine basketball player to being a man with a higher calling, an ambassador for closeted gay sports figures and open-minded people all over the globe.
Thank Jason Collins for taking that intimidating walk into the unknown, standing over the sea and diving in. May he rest in peace. And may his example guide us to a better place.
